Men Want to Conquer and Don't Want to Find a Deer Already Shot

Melanie, my friend, is exactly that kind of deer already shot, in my eyes. She spots a guy she likes at a club, even though men want to do the conquering.

She hits on him and she is as easy to read as an open book. He doesn't ask for her number, she asks for his. She has a man's number faster than a cocktail can be mixed.

She never takes my advice. In her eyes, I have no clue. Women have emancipated themselves, she says, and all that advice belongs in the trash. They're right about that. Today a woman takes what she needs and doesn't wait for the prince on the white horse to come around the corner.

Yet she is looking for a relationship, not a one-night stand. She wants to get married and start a family. That she won't get a relationship this way is something she truly hasn't understood. And she is probably a hopeless case.

A man wants to be a man: men want to conquer

A man who wants a woman will take the initiative on his own. He will court her and make an effort for her. He wants to spend his time with her and can wait until the first time they go to bed.

A man will treat a woman who is easy to get accordingly. He won't make her the mother of his children. After the sex with the ever-willing one, he will look for the right partner instead. And she won't be named Melanie Kowalski, but Anne-Marie Whitfield.

A woman should know how to get a man. She doesn't answer right away when he gets in touch. She doesn't jump at a date the same day or the next, but is only available when she wants to be, not whenever he thinks his schedule allows it.

This is the preparation phase for a relationship. Later, once you are in the relationship, you can finally behave "completely normally." Before that, a certain strategy is necessary, otherwise the man loses interest too quickly.

Men want to conquer, and they still will in 100 years: be a kitten

Our friend Beatrice always says: "Be smart and be a kitten." Men don't like it when women come across with a sharp tongue at the start of the getting-to-know-you phase. Be charming, be like a young kitten and enchant the man. Let yourself be conquered, and he will do anything for you.

Be hard to reach for him and show him you are the goddess, you are the queen. Don't dress too provocatively for the first date. Play with your charms. But cover up the most important parts. Let him imagine, but don't show too much. Glow from within and he will be at your feet and want only you.

You are meant to become the goddess for him. So don't lie there in front of him as a deer already shot. Let him get out his bow and arrow and take careful aim. He can miss a few times. Then give him the feeling that, after a job well done, he has finally reached his goal. He will do anything for you! Absolutely!